3 QUESTIONS TO ASK YOUR CHILD AFTER SCHOOL
The questions we ask are often the only insight we’ll get into our child’s school day.
That makes the type of questions you ask quite powerful!
Questions should be open-ended, encouraging your child to reflect on and share their experiences from the day. “Did you have a good day?” doesn’t provide any information or insight into your child’s day.
3 questions to ask your child instead:
“What is something new you did today?“
Pending your child’s response you can ask them further questions about it, like, what they enjoyed, found challenging, did they have to ask for any help?
Their response may be something academic, physical or from the playground. Often these questions will lead to your child sharing about a separate experience from their day.
“Is there anything that made you feel worried or unsure today? Can you tell me about it?”
This may require you to share an experience of your own first if your child isn’t forthcoming with a response. Talking with your child about how they navigated the situation can build their skills and confidence when they are faced with a similar situation in the future. An encouraging comment like, “it sounds like you were really brave” will also build your child’s self-confidence.
“What are you looking forward to tomorrow?” (or the next school day).
This question focuses your child’s attention on something positive. Asking this last can support them to associate school with positive experiences.
A BONUS QUESTION
“How were you kind today?” or “Did you notice anyone being kind today?”
Simply because the world needs kindness.
If anything concerns you that arises from your conversations with your child, I encourage you to reach out to their class teacher to discuss these with them. Open communication is key to addressing any issues that may affect your child’s school experience. Additionally, if you believe your child may need extra support, I, as the local Teaching and Learning Facilitator, am here to collaborate with your child, your family, and their school. Together, we can identify and implement effective strategies to address any concerns, behaviours, or worries your child may be facing. Your child’s school experience and well-being are my focus.